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Good day CS i know this question is gonna come across as a rather vain one ,but what the heck. I'm a woman 27 and i stopped dating for a while because my relationships would hit a dead end because i was attracting the wrong kind of men liars to be exact i normally go for a certain kind of guylooks have been important to me and that is what i would find attractive in a man ,and obviously many other things ,such as a stable job ,honesty etc etc I've recently Met this guy ,he is a professional ,well mannered ,kind ,honest ,around my age group ,he is ideal in every sense and seems to like me a lot,my problem is that on the looks scale he is probably a 2 out of 10 and it is very difficult to accept that im gonna be with him for the rest of my life,is there something wrong with me?
Answer 55, views. Indeed you do sound immature, superficial and vain. Presumably you consider yourself so highly attractive that you need a similarly gorgeous companion? Apparently you want someone more as a fashion accessory than a loving companion. I'm wondering why you have recently chosen to spend time with what sounds like a genuinely nice guy, who just isn't good-looking enough for you to feel proud of showing him off to your pals.
And this suggests that in a way you give them the right of veto over your companions : your man must impress them at first glance. There's no point in selecting a mate you find distasteful, or unpleasant to be with, but as you seem to recognize, you're considering a potential long-term companion, not a date for an evening.
Think of that future.
In 10 years from now, that handsome stud is likely to be much more ordinary looking, maybe still vain, but definitely not red carpet material. If he is still strikingly handsome : will you still be attractive enough for him to feel proud to show you off, or would he lose interest in you as the wrinkles gather? The nice guy, on the other hand, is likely to be just as nice, maybe nicer. It sounds as though you have been attracted by handsome liars, and given a choice, would prefer another liar to someone less handsome.
Maybe, though your age is getting on now, you;re not yet mature enough to achieve a mature relationship with a good and deep person, and still prefer a pretty package. Maybe you need more time to mature, maybe another experience of the emptiness of a relationship with someone who is merely pretty, before you're ready to try a grown-up rlationship?
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